8.15.2012

Count the Fail


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  1. Oh, you know, I'm getting used to this. Black men who want to heap all problems in the Black community on the feet of Black women and all of their flaws, and of course I biggest flaw is that we won't just let them behave however they want, treat us however they want, and just shut up and take whatever garbage or abuse they want to heap upon you.

    So yeah, expecting someone to have a job is a problem. Expecting someone to have an education is a problem. Having standards is a problem. Expecting someone to do their share of housework and childcare is a problem. Not looking like Halle Berry is a problem.

    You should be a man's freak, cook, maid, and baby factory. You should shut up and let him play Xbox all day and you should deal with the kids and the housework.

    We're all uppity and educated and think we are too good for them. We are too mouthy and talk too much (usually that is the women who give losers and chance and then try to upgrade them).

    And this reminds me why so many of us don't need to bother with dating or marriage.

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  2. Whenever people refer back to the good ole days, I point out that back then there were many depressed women. In the last 3 years I realised I know how to live a happy single life, so anyone I'm going to bother dating (let alone marrying) needs to at the very minimum not reduce that happiness. One of the easiest ways to get kicked out of my universe - say something insulting / patronising / snide to me. Many men are very good at doing this. Thankfully not all are.
    Interestingly in the picture above there is nothing about the role of men. I have a close friend who was pretty much the 1970s woman. About 10 years ago I had to disabuse her of some idea she had that all women would be better off married and not working outside the home. She once told me her dream was for her husband to make enough money so she could be a housewife but one with style. Said husband cheated on her, whilst she was heavily pregnant with their child. Dude could not get his work / career in order (so she was working anyway!), and was not into cleaning or cooking. Now she's a single mother. The idea that one can completely rely on a man financially, for the rest of one's life - that is a dangerous idea. And men who insist on telling women to buy into this idea, and / or the idea that we are here to be anything they want, whenever and however...they are dirty filthy pimps.

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    1. And the story you tell there is why so many kids/women wind up in poverty after divorce. It's sad what some women will tolerate to have a man, and how they live in these houses made of sand for no good reason.

      A friend of a friend married a guy who was flying Brazilian prostitutes into the country. They were both bankers, she found out about the hookers, married him anyway, had a baby, quit her job, he lost his, and they had another baby. That's where the story was the last time I heard. Clearly it's not headed for a happy ending. I doubt that a man who was able to cheat and keep his fiancee is going to stop cheating. It's just that now that he's unemployed ,he's probably cheating in an alley or in a park after dark...

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  3. Funny how 'Knows Her Worth' is kept far from 'Strong and Independent'. Hmmm. More like 'Knows Her Place'.

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    1. Right???

      And WTF is "Know she has more power being submissive to her man"??? What the FUCK is that????

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  4. Not this shit again? This was all over Tumblr a few weeks ago. There is a new one floating around comparing Black women to Asian women, and how Asian women are a better choice. On behalf of all Black women I would like to tell the dumb fuck who created this to go throw himself in a volcano.

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    1. There is a new one floating around comparing Black women to Asian women, and how Asian women are a better choice.

      Links, please!

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    2. I'll look for it now. Its on tumblr..

      O.k. here it it--> http://highvoodoopussypope.tumblr.com/post/29023781692/pityplease-stfunithingas-punkcub

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    3. *blink*
      I got lost, and started laughing, at "horse vagina." If he feels that strongly about Black women then why doesn't he stfu and keep it moving in another direction.

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    4. I don't even...I just...can't...whateva.

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  5. Words I live by: If you don't want to be bothered with me, then I will make it easy for you and stay out of your way. We ain't ever gotta speak or deal with each other.

    So if the motherfuckers who create this shit are so against Black women, that's fine. LEAVE US THE HELL ALONE THEN! Keep your hatred to yourself, go find a woman or a doormat of a different color and stay the hell away from us. This shit is checkers, it ain't chess.

    And people wonder why a lot of us ain't trying to be bothered? Why should we? Why should we give a damn about men (granted, not all brothas subscribe to this brand of hate) who don't give a damn about us? I'm so over this. So over it.

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    1. They can't leave us alone. They need to bash us in order to feel better about themselves.

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    2. It's at an all time high now. I know Black men and woman have had our issues with each other, but I don't recall it being this bad. There's a site that explores much of this hate towards Black women. Everyone, and I mean everyone seems to be obsessed with us.

      http://againstinternetattacks.wordpress.com/

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  6. So being independent's a problem? Oh I have a special place for this bum in the crack of my ass. I'll even be "submissive" enough to bend over so he can kiss it properly. Seriously, wtf?

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    1. Lifecoaster, you are officially my Internet sibling. Said bum can take the left cheek, the right cheek, or go straight up the middle...but he will ultimately kiss my black ass.

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  7. These fucking comic this fool has a lot of them all floating around tumblr and everywhere else. He is on that Nice GuyTM bullshit. "WAHHH NONE OF THE HOT BLACK GIRLS WANTED ME IN HIGH SCHOOL AND I CAN'T GET OVER IT" I mean look at this shit

    http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m83qhbrsZL1r6s6xgo1_500.jpg

    http://ai-yo.tumblr.com/post/25123949730/so-my-i-have-been-seeing-these-comic-strips-around-and

    Nice guyTM bullshit.

    These fucking Black men love to blame everything on Black women. Basically saying that Black women are making Black men gay then you have a gay Black man saying the reason gay Black men don't want to come out is because of Black women.

    Wow you guys I never knew we had so much power, I would at least like some sort of transformation brooch to go with it. (I am watching way too much Sailor Moon).

    Like I always say if you don't like Black women cool fuck off just keep are fucking names off your lips stop chattin about us and swallow donkey shit.

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    1. I think it's AMAZING how many of them blame feminisim for the destruction of the black family. Of course, if they want to blame the progess and successes on the black women on our access to education and good jobs, I'd say they should read their history books and blame the Civil Rights movement, b/c feminism is NOT what has allowed us to scale the ranks in coroporate America. Those "spots" are only for white girls.
      Funny how their own failures and inability to compete and be good partners is NEVER something that they'll own up to.
      Nope, it's these uppity college girls who think they have a right to decide how the money they earned is spent, and who won't let me cheat on or beat on them, or lay around the house unemployed playing video games while she does all of the work.
      They want a blow-up doll who says nothing, looks "pretty" and rains money on their heads.
      Men who are real men and do not feel indequate and have good self-esteem do not need women that they can push around at home. And they recognize when their partners know more or are simply smarter about some things. I've seen some of those marriages where the dumber parter, just b/c he was a man, was allowed to make major financial deciscions...it's not pretty.

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    2. Funny how their own failures and inability to compete and be good partners is NEVER something that they'll own up to.

      Utterly side-splitting.

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    3. That whole "nice guy" speil is complete bullshit. They take their own problems on Black women so they don't feel inadequate. F*** you, Black women don't owe you shit and you aren't a nice guy.

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  8. This reminds me of that de'ray joke. about how he doesn't want a woman with any concept of history. So that he could say things like "what do you mean where have I been??? SLAVERYY is going on outside. I'm trying to get us free anf you're questioning me!"
    While I think you were obviously supposed to think of it as just a joke and not really approve, when I see things like this, i can't help but wonder how much of that laughter was forced because some of them actually did want that kind of thing.

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    1. De'Ray can be funny sometimes, but he clearly has a sexist streak. I'd ask what kind of shitty childhood he had to make him feel the need to disrespect women the way he does, but there's no need to ask. He constantly "jokes" about his mother's drug abuse and all the domestic violence he witnessed as a kid.

      So...question not asked, 'caused question already answered.

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  9. In related news, I am seeing this stuff on my wall more than ever:
    http://www.videobash.com/photo_show/Who-would-you-date-40769?utm_source=adnan&utm_medium=PT&utm_campaign=facebook-adnan-awais-images

    and this: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151004681856744&set=a.10150851421746744.401531.314144281743&type=1&theaterz

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    1. as for the first one,can you say fucking creepy????

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